Sunday, February 28, 2016

Black Don't Crack Rosie!

"Can I ask you a question?"

When I hear that my heart drops because I know what's coming.  The woman* asking this time takes her place in Zumba class right beside me.

Why don't I just answer, "NO!" ?

Would that shut people up???!!!


THIS IS SUCH A RUDE QUESTION!!!    S H U T    U P !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Does anyone ask anyone else how much they weigh?

Now today, there was a fleeting moment of bliss because my deflection of choice today was, "How old do you think I am?"

She answered, "31."

My gleeful reaction caused the woman to say, "Ah I nailed it!"  At that my glee reached its' pinnacle for about one second.

Now I really get into Zumba and we were just starting class.  This was great because it cut the chit chat off and it was a distraction from the flurry of thoughts that follow even a blissful moment like this:


  • She was obviously being kind, how old does she really think I am?
  • Will she become obsessed with finding out for sure?
  • Did I put my last name on the sign in sheet?  Ever?
  • Will she ask again?
  • Is she watching me during class and thinking my skin looks older than 31?
  • Will she tell anyone else my 'age' which will cause them to challenge that?


*In hindsight, the fact that this woman is black makes this a bonus compliment.  I guess Rosie don't crack either!

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